Showing posts with label expat. Show all posts
Showing posts with label expat. Show all posts

Thursday, September 22, 2011

It takes a blog....



It was delightful...
I had the very good fortune to meet a long time blogging friend last week.
Some of you may know Susie @The Mill House. We started writing to 
each other within a few weeks of creating our blogs nearly two years ago.

We connected on many levels, it started with our expat backgrounds.
We both travel long distances to be with our children. We both call more than one place home.
 We both have children of similar ages and our hearts are split between two hemispheres.

Early days...
I remember those early days in 2009. Susie had recently moved 
from Sydney, Australia to Bath, England. She wrote of her family, 
missing Sydney and getting ready for the Christmas holiday in Bath.


I loved seeing her Christmas wreath on her door and her tree strapped onto her car. 
I hadn't experienced a northern hemisphere Christmas in ten years. I was so excited for her.


She posted these photos on December 18, 2009.  At the time, I was sitting in Sydney
 airport with my family waiting to fly to London to start our new life in England.  
I was apprehensive yet so excited to read about her Christmas in 
Bath that I instantly felt heartened about our move. It was a comforting thought as 
I tucked myself into my airplane seat for the long journey to our new home.

Two English women...
Susie was a godsend. Being English herself she gave me tips on what to do and 
 and when I was feeling most homesick...she would have a way of touching base 
and saying just what I needed to hear. Through Susie I met Sarah @ Semi Expat, 
another talented English woman living abroad. They kept me well supplied
with tips of what to see and do in London. 
All this via two people I happened to meet through my blog.

Imaginary friends...
Susie and Sarah were the first of what my family called my 'imaginary friends'. 
They would look over my shoulder and give them nicknames... 
Susie from Bath, Vicki from My French Life, Sharon from the French Countryside, 
Pamela and the big white dog, Edward and Lisa from Vermont. 
Over the past year I have been fortunate enough to meet them all. With each one, 
it was like picking up a conversation with an old friend. Wonderful!
My family is delighted to see that Mom is not going crazy 
and that these women acutally exist.
Imaginary friends no more. :)

Back to school...
Susie has since started a University degree and has taken a break from blogging. 
I love that she still stays in touch, reads along and leaves her thoughtful comments.
I hope one day she will return to the fold and continue to write.

Making connections...
The connection remains and for that I am most grateful. I often think how nice 
it would be to put my blogging friends together with my friends from the 
different countries I have lived in. I know they would all enjoy each other's company,
so many brilliant and talented women with like minds in one place. 
A dream come true!

French thoughts...
Susie mentioned that she enjoyed the photos of the chateau we stayed
 in during our recent trip to the Loire Valley. As I wandered from room to room,
I often thought how much fun it would be to rent this house with a bunch of girlfriends. 

Women on a mission...
Just think, 
a few women,
with a few days to unwind 
in a French chateau,
before....
hitting the country roads 
of France,
en route to French markets and more.
Oh...the fun we would have!












Ready when you are... :)


It takes a blog....
for wonderful things to happen. 
:)


bottom images~me
two top images~susie

Friday, May 14, 2010

Women's Stories

Do you think about your story? 

Your past, the present, where you have been, 
where you are going, your hopes for the future? 

I ask because today I heard many stories...
women's stories and I found them fascinating.

I belong to a Friday walking/hiking group. This morning 30 of us set off to see the beautiful English countryside. We rotated back and forth, talking with one than another, taking it all in stride. Some people have been a part of this group for years and there are others, like myself, who are just joining in.  We are alike in that our home countries are somewhere else. We are expats calling England our home. For some of us it will be a blip on the radar screen of life, it will pass quickly. For others, it will register in a fuller sense and for some it will become the land they call home.  Each story is as unique as the individual.  The questions flow one after another. We talk about our experiences and before you know it 2 hours have passed and we have walked 6 miles. It was refreshing.


As I drove away today I thought back on our conversations. I enjoyed them all.  I then started to think of my friends spread out around the world and the stories of their lives. This thought led me to the friendships I have so enjoyed in the blogging world and the stories that unfold with each post. 


Whether verbal or written we are all telling the story of our lives. It comes in bits and pieces in all shapes and forms. The story is not always happy, often times their is heartache but the story is ours. It is in the fabric of our lives. 

Ok, I am going to stop there. 
I feel passionate about this and could go on forever about it! 


It is Friday...time for rest :)


On that note, this is where my story began today..... 

Wishing you all a big, beautiful weekend!
PS...to start your weekend, 

go to Happiness Moments , scroll to the bottom of the post 
and view the film clip to Something's Gotta Give...great music!


More Stories....
Collage of Life~one woman's view
In One Place~thinking about a creative life
Finding My Way~ discovering England
B-Well Report~ wellness